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Grab a large skillet, something heavy-bottomed if you have it. Melt a good knob of butter over medium-low heat. Slice your yellow onions thinly—this is important for even caramelization. Toss them in the butter, season with a pinch of salt. Now, here’s the secret: low and slow. Stir them every so often, letting them soften and turn golden, then deep amber. This can take 20-30 minutes, sometimes more. Don't rush it! I always forget to stir them enough, and then one side gets a bit too dark. But honestly, the smell filling your kitchen is half the reward.
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While the onions are doing their thing, gently form your ground beef into four oval-shaped patties, about 1/2-inch thick. You want them to be roughly the same size and shape as your rye bread slices. Don't overwork the meat; that makes them tough. Season both sides generously with salt and black pepper. I once made them too thick, and they took forever to cook through, leaving the bread burnt. Lesson learned: keep 'em relatively thin for even cooking.
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In a separate skillet (or wipe out your onion pan if they're done and set aside), heat a little oil over medium-high heat. Once hot, carefully place your patties in the pan. Cook for about 3-4 minutes per side for a medium-well burger. You’re looking for a nice sear and a juicy center. This is where I sometimes get impatient and flip too early, losing that beautiful crust. Wait for it! You'll hear that satisfying sizzle, and the kitchen will start smelling amazing.
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While the patties are cooking, get your rye bread ready. Spread a thin layer of mayonnaise on one side of each slice of bread. This is my little trick for the crispiest, golden-brown crust! Lay a slice of Swiss cheese on the un-mayo'd side of two bread slices. Once the patties are cooked, place one patty on each of those cheese-topped slices. Then, top each patty with a generous spoonful of those wonderfully caramelized onions.
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Now for the magic! Place the remaining two bread slices (mayo-side up) on top of the onions. So, you've got mayo-bread, cheese, patty, onions, cheese, mayo-bread. Get it? Gently press down. In a clean skillet (or wiped-out patty pan), melt a bit more butter over medium heat. Place your assembled sandwiches, mayo-side down, in the pan. I usually do two at a time because my skillet isn't huge, and trying to cram all four is just asking for kitchen chaos.
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Cook for 3-4 minutes per side, or until the bread is beautifully golden brown and crispy, and the cheese is gloriously melted and oozing. You might need to gently press down with your spatula to help that cheese melt. This is the moment I always anticipate—the smell, the sizzle, the promise of gooey goodness. Once both sides are perfect, carefully remove them from the pan. Slice them diagonally, because, honestly, it just looks better that way. Serve immediately and enjoy that perfect Classic Patty Melt Sandwich!